[Toni]

Wow Stefanie,

I would love to find you a Victorian style for your wedding that you or at least you and a friend could do. The modern, messy, curly updo will be interesting and almost seems Mod-Victorian. (if I dare make up such a thing)

If you cannot think of any girlfriends, don't you know a teenager taking cosmetology in school who would love the practice? Some of these girls are quite talented and when they are learning about hair, many of them are eager to play in it. It would be safe and fun. After all, you aren't letting them cut, color or perm. Just some harmless curling, and styling. You could play the pampered bride-to-be!