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I'm a little paranoid about posting on the internet, especially images of my self, damn self-consciousness!

So here is the extent of my knowledge in this area; take the largest possible number you can think of and multiply it by zero. With that out of the way, I've only been to a few "hair stylist" places and usually with the beautiful women around I just have to feel macho when they say "What do you want?" and be like buzz it or just cut it. Of course, when I say hair stylist I mean the likes of great clips, which basically is a barber that is open on Mondays (I'm from a small town, to me a barber is a one man/woman shop that just cuts mens hair in a fast manner, sorry if I'm wrong)?

I've let my hair get long a couple times and to keep it from being frizzy I kind of have to ignore washing it every other shower, which makes me feel dirty and grimy -- but I took that over it being frizzy (after shampoo), these sessions would only last like 6 months and instead of trimming I go back to a short cut. I only add this for your knowledge, at that length when I don't let my hair be frizzy it gets natural curls (you can kind of see them forming in the old pic I put at the bottom).

So anyways, I'm a rambler, but the basic question is in the threads ***le. What should I do with my face/paleness? Should I add in any kind of beard (becomes a shade darker than my top hair)? I don't know if obesity plays a role, but the recent pictures from today are me -- after college, in all its fast food eating glory. Hopefully, I get back to my state (drinking the large beer) which would be the first year of college, if that has anything to do with the hair style.

I appreciate all the help, and feel free just to scream at me to go to a professional somewhere. Maybe that will give me the courage to not just cut all my hair off the next time I sneak into a beauty salon type place :P